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Date: Tue. Jun. 24 2008 10:50 PM ET

An exclusive online dating service that attempts to weed out unattractive members, allowing only the beautiful through the door, is coming to Canada.

Prospective members of the BeautifulPeople Network submit a picture and profile, and other members of the opposite sex rate the applicant over a 72-hour period, deciding whether they're worthy of joining the coveted community.

The online service even goes so far as to advertise a ban on ugliness -- something the managing director says is more a reflection of reality than evidence of arrogance.

"If you're in a bar in a romantic situation and you're going to approach someone with a romantic inclination, you're going to approach someone you're attracted to, at least initially," Greg Hodge tells Canada AM. "There's certainly nothing shallow about that, it's human nature."

Hodge says he isn't trying to define beauty. Instead, he said the organizers believe in the old maxim 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and as such they give the power to the people -- other approved members -- to decide who is allowed in.

Including Canada, the dating service now operates in 16 countries, and Hodge attributes the success to a simple formula.

"It plays on a clever combination of four things: beauty, love, sex and money. Advertisers use those four desires to sell us pretty much everything and Beautiful People plays on a clever combination of all of that," Hodge said.

Not everyone thinks the concept is so clever. Lisa Naylor counsels teens with body image issues and says the website is a step in the wrong direction.

"I think the message that it gives girls -- boys and girls, but particularly girls -- in the culture about appearance is quite damaging," Naylor told CTV News.

Jacqueline Levitin is a Simon Fraser University professor who teaches how women are portrayed in popular culture. She says the site is evidence that the feminist movement still has a long way to go.

"I don't think things have changed all that much," Levitin told CTV News. "I think we've done a lot of back-sliding."

Hodge admits the dating service usually provokes some negative reactions whenever it opens in a new market and he jokes he could soon need his own security detail.

But the bottom line, Hodge says, is that the online service simply makes it easier for people -- provided they pass the attractive test -- to meet that special someone.

"People want to be with someone they're attracted to, that was the initial premise of the creation of Beautiful People, remove that first hurdle," Hodge said.

"And once you do become a member of this coveted community, you have essentially the best little black book in the world."

With a report by CTV's Rob Brown in Vancouver

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Jennifer
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Why do the beautiful people need the dating site? Perhaps because it is only skin deep?


Gloria
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We ALL want to be with attractive people but ....who's to be the judge of that? Sorry...it IS shallow.


Tim
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on-line community ...sounds like an oxymoron! How about going into the REAL world.


Sandra from Montreal
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That is terrible to ban "ugly" people, and ultimately will lower people's self-esteem, even if a really pretty / handsome person is banned....

Shame Shame


TG
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What if "ugly" people are the one's you're attracted to? I don't doubt it'll be a hit, but only for those who are shallow and ignorant. I prefer people of quality and intelligence no matter what they like. How about a site for brainy people?


Dave
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Could we have a dating website that bans stupid people?


peggy
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A person's character is more important than their looks.


DK
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His eyes don't look like they're even... I wonder if he'd get approved?


Kelly
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In most cases, you are attracted to someone BECAUSE of their personality....unless you are SHALLOW!!


Quasimodo
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Define "UGLY"


Wayne
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I watched Canada AM and this particular piece and I have to say that this guy came across as a first class Jerk...with a CAPITAL J.
The problem with Beautiful People is that a lot of them really think...You Know What doesn't stink.


MHR
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I am gay - Young in my age and I think Greg Hodge is ugly.


Joseph
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I think it is a great idea. It's only putting out in the open something we do anyway. It's a great idea and it WILL catch on.


Realty Cheque!
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OBNOXIOUS!
Goes to show that so-called developed countries favour Narcissism and Consumerism in the 21st century while the rest of the world can barely feed itself.



Paul
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There seems to be a lot of people who have some very negative feelings about this service. It must be because they are the "ugly" ones.


Joanne from Barrie
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WOW

i WOULD LOVE TO MEET ONE OF THESE PEOPLE ....NOT!


M. Cameron
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I'd like to see the looks on the faces of those people who sign up and get rejected because they are too ugly. That would be funny. They think they are beautiful but someone puts them in their place.


Narcissus
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Wow! I never realized just how many ugly people viewed this site!


Dana
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Why love, sex, beauty and money? Why not brains or family values and how is this a clever combination, it sounds like a gold digger society. I do agree that you should be attracted to someone, but who can judge want I or anyone else finds attractive vs. you


Ken
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That's one of the funniest things I have ever heard.
You know what they say? "Beauty is skin deep but ugly is all the way to the bone.


Victor Panlilio
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The site for Beautiful People warns that it's for Internet Explorer only. This alone confirms that it's for stupid folks because Internet Explorer is the most widely exploited web browser, and the least standards-compliant.


Miss Misery
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I think the idea here is to skip the ppl who really don't take care of themseselves. People aren't 'ugly', their -lazy- and can't shave off those extra 250 lbs or cut that scraggy, nasty hair. There's no such thing as an ugly woman. A little makeup, highlights and a hairbrush and voila! Even the mousiest gal can be a bombshell with the wonders of cosmetics.


Tricia
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i think they will all deserve each other.

...and Dave, great comment. LOL!


rod
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those people who judge people on their looks obviously have issues because the beauty of a person is inside not the superficial outside.


D.S.
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Sounds like alot of ugly people on here. i might not be able to make the cut but good for those that can. the guy is right. people don't look across the bar and say. gee wiz, that person looks like they have a good personality. they say they're hot, i want to get to know them. this is just like that, except on the net.


Edward
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Why not? Life's too short to dance with ugly women! Oh...looks don't matter you say? You're just fooling yourselves, but you're not fooling anyone else.


TG
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Dave said:
Could we have a dating website that bans stupid people?

Now Dave is my kinda guy.

We need a web site for smart people which bans the brainless, particularly anyone who's registered on the "beautiful people" web site ;-)


Coddy
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This is very funny. I think they should change the name to ShallowPeople. I think anyone who considers themselves attractive and smart should NOT join this dating service and we will see how many shallow Canadians are out there.


rachel
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many times those who are beautifull on the outside are truely ugly on the inside. so what do they do with those people...


Sandy
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Wow! Why would "beautiful" people need a dating service? Maybe it's because they are so "ugly" on the inside they have to find a moron just like them. Well then I guess it's a good idea, but I would change the name to "ignorantmorons.com".


Keith Summers
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What next? beautifulwhitepeople.com or beautifulpeopleofcolour.com....give me a break. The undertone of this idea is secular and racist.


Peter
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All of the above comments whether for or against, (including mine)are EXACTLY what this service want...is to provoke a response, it's all about ratings whether these beautiful people are shallow or not! That being said, it is disgusting in my view and as an earlier comment said...let's feed the poor instead.


Kathleen
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and NO dating site excludes from allowing that. This site is plain and simply arrogant and they're advertising that. It's advertising the "Paris Hilton - I'm better than all of you attitude" and unfortunately getting away with it. If beauty really was in the eye of the beholder on this site, they wouldn't have to worry about having people vote - because each could simply choose in private those they thought fit their ideal. Personally, I think this borders on a hate crime because people are actually voting.


Mike
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Whether you guys like it or not, the man is right. Take a look at the marketing industry for example. Its not just a coincidence that its attractive people trying to sell me stuff. No one wants to date an ugly person. Sure we all want someone who is intelligent and funny. But if you had to choose between two people whos only difference was their looks, you'd choose the attractive person too.


Rob
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these people deserve each other... oh, and let me guess, nobody's going to put up fake pictures of themselves to get in the system?? What a joke... good luck with that..


Peter
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The most recent photo of me is at a friend's BBQ wearing an old T-shirt and holding a beer. I guess I'm 'Shift out of Luck' trying to join this site.


PTOL
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All the negative posts here are undoubtedly coming from the kind of people who want to think that looks don't count - obviously looks do count. That being said - one persons definition of beauty can be completely different than someone else's.

And HMR - what the heck does you being gay have to do with this issue?

kate
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I think it's brilliant! Get all the stupid..errr...I mean beautiful people to inbreed which in turn will eventually render them unable to reproduce and then they will become extinct and we won't have to put up with this idiocy any longer.


NA
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Its a shame, I know Canadians have beautiful hearts and souls. They dont need something stupid like that.


Zand
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The websites boast over 120,000 users.

That's some seriously lonely beautiful people!

Which is rather funny really, I mean, the first "profile" I saw was of some 20-something who owns a villa, owns a car, and makes a substantial amount of money.

I mean, the depth there! How can this man with perfectly chiseled abs, strong jaw, oozing raw masculinity be single?!

Oh that's right. This isn't a site looking for the perfect complimentary eye candy, this is a site looking for depth, love and a lasting relationship.

Uh huh.


Bill L A
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Beauty is a product of personality and physical appearance anyone that decides on a person to date based on one side alone will likely get what they deserve, a person that is truly ugly. If all you are concerned with is who to jump tonight then this service is for you. Some have said humans are animals and this is just instinctual behaviour, if this is true then we haven’t progressed much above the eat sleep and procreate level. In the past people like Greg Hodge where labelled as Dogs, this wasn’t a compliment. If you want to succeed you have to distance yourself from these guys. Just think what would happen if it was discovered that a politician was using this service? From the comments here it is evident that using this service would place you in a category that no one with aspirations of any sort would want to be in. Being labelled one of the pretty people may seem like a good idea, but from a career point of view or a success point of view the words on your CV or the diplomas on your wall are of more value unless you’re a model. Remember money can buy you a new face a new body a new look, but your stuck with your personality and if it is ugly your ugly like it or not.


Never met a woman that wasnt beautiful
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There was a time in my younger years (and Im only 37 presently) that I would have thought that this was a good idea.

Since Ive matured (somewhat) Ive learned that there are no ugly people. Ive realized that every woman Ive ever met has been beautiful in one way or many others.




Darryl
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Typical elitism, shallowness and narcissism, and definitely out of touch with reality!

Thanks to the dating service I've eliminated their clientèle as possible suitors (I'm single). Can't believe how shallow and insecure these people are!




don
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hey if this works it keeps this type of crap out of the single bars




Ali
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Does anyone realize this site has alot to do with race or religion? How many people would possibly accept races they dont like? If there is one asian woman signed in and likes an asian man signing on who gets rejected by 4 white women, then what? She can't meet him cause he's not attracted to the white women?

Mathieu
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Terrible concept that they made a web site tailored for such shallow people. Sadly, I have no doubt this will bring in generous revenu due to oversaturation of the 'perfect' image of a persone (male or female). Our society is shifting from one evil to the next.


Judson
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These people are doing the intelligent world a favour. In my experience, pretty people are more likely to be stupid & lazy than the less pretty ones. While fun for a while, dating a really hot lead-head gets on your nerves after bit. Let the pretty morons congregate in the same place. Then we can either avoid these dating blights or infiltrate for sport sex, when possible. Boink'n'leave Pretty, fall in love with Smart. Of course Smart is possibly pretty too, but definitely on a different dating site. Or maybe at the park or the library. And if the revolution comes, they'll all be in one spot and we'll know who to eat first. ;)


Sanjay Singh
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I just took a quick gander at their website. Not that impressed. Yes the people are attractive but not overwhelmingly so.

But I do wonder how long it will be before someone launches a lawsuit against the website for not being admitted claiming mental anguish and stuff like that.

In North America people will try anything to get what they cannot have.


ks
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Over the years I've met people who, at first glance, appeared beautiful. As I got to know them, they became uglier by the day because their inner nature began to show through. By the same token I've met people who I thought we're unattractive at first, but again, as I got to know them they became increasingly attractive as their real strengths became evident. Seems a dating service of this type would only give it's members first glance and very limited possibilites.


Inversity
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Another overt example of blatant racism. Who are these existing "approved" members, and who approved them? Did it all start with a Hodge, himself, approving the first "beautiful" person, and then, from then on, the racism (beauty in Hodge's eyes) became rampant? How would an aboriginal person from a first nation community in northern Ontario fair with the existing "approved" members? Hardly a chance at being considered "beautiful", if, after all...

It's like the bumper sticker: "Don't tell me what type of day to have!" In other words, don't tell me what type of person to date! I'll be the one (not others) to decide if a person is beautiful or not! Hodge and his approved members cannot pretend to be God, when it comes to beauty.

Sarah
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Found the website. It states 'Looks Matters' on the main page. Apparently, proper grammar and intelligence do not, however.


KG
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People keep saying that whoever is against this website is ugly....well no....what is ugly anyways? Everyone has their own taste! The issue here is about morals and values and how you were raised. Obviously you people who are calling us all ugly are extremely immature and your parents did a horrible job of bringing you up right. I think this site is disgusting and rude and the only people who are going to put their pictures up on it are people with low self esteem who just need to be told their beautiful to get that confidence boost. Internet dating is ridiculous to me anyways because you never know who is REALLY on the other end, if you want to meet someone don't go to some skanky bar and look for a "hottie"....look in a place where you might find someone who thinks about more than what they are going to wear for the next week


Devil's Advocate
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Let me get this straight...

The "accepted members" are just so damned "beautiful" that they need to resort to finding someone online.

Too funny!
And a pathetic premise to launch an online dating profile.


TC
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Here's a question? What would happen if all of us "Ugly People" decided to submit our applications at the same time on the same day?


Dana Sixty
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Just wondering who thinks they have the audacity to make decisions on what constitutes "beautiful".
I beg to differ on why some of these folks are even on here, even if only just from a superficial, "looks" perspective. And IQ is obviously not a factor.
I clicked on one guy because he looked like the type to slip a drug into your drink. He lists his profession as a "giornalist" and he weighs 5kg...



Acroyear
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You know what?

I'm an ugly dude... no way around it. My lady? Well, she isn't ugly to my eyes, but I'd say by THESE peoples standards they'd say so.

And we've been head over heals happy with each other for 3 years now.

You know what attracted me to her? The very first thing that made me want to say hello? Her laugh :)

God only knows what she saw in me... wasn't even my money, didn't have any then...LOL.

But we two ugly butts are very happy, thank you very much. You want to be shallow enough to think that looks at all reflect the person inside? Be my guest.

BTW...if they're so damn good looking, why the hell do they need a dating service? If they're "all that and a bag of chips" shouldn't they be beating off us ugly loosers with a stick?

Having said all that, they want to meet folks just as shallow as themselves, and pay for the priviledge... more power too them.

Free country and all that... even for fools out to get themselves hurt.


HEALS
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so u need to be like Jolie or Brad Pitt to be considered BEAUTIFUL that is such an arrogant dating site. God, it is shallow. I think I'm beautiful, but the next person might not - guess ONLY DIVAS SHOULD apply then eh. btw, MR. HODGE ur not beautiful by any means


Mike K.
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These people should watch the movie Hitch, sometimes you need to trick people out of their own way, so great people that may not necessarily look like a model get a chance. Who defines beautiful? everyone is beautiful in their own way, those people are a bunch of shallow fools, who will most likely end in divorce due to the loss of sexual attraction...bottom line, keep it out of Canada, we don't need to make ourselves look like idiots.


Scott Hodgins
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This dating site's catch phrase should be:

BeautifulPeople.com, a place for narcissistic elitism.


Chris
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First off, the problem is that they're trying to pass this off as a relationship site. If looks is the only thing you're looking for in a relationship, you've failed before you began. You don't pick up at a bar looking for a relationship, at least not past one night. Let's call it for what it is. This is a booty call service, nothing more, nothing less.


Pretty Girl
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I am shocked at the number of people who automatically assume that anyone who doesn't agree with the concept of this website is ugly. Believe it or not, I am very attractive and guess what..?? I feel that this site maybe appealing but only to some........the idiots.


Pam
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The saying 'beauty is skin deep' does that include all the plastic and botox since that is ugly stuff and dangerous. We don't need oil to be used needlessly for plastice when it is so expensive for our cars. True beauty is only in the eye of the beholder as out artists of fame have shown us for hundreds of years. Mona Lisa, how many have thought her beautiful. She attrats thousand every year to see her in Paris.


Labrador Tea
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How does anyone know it is a picture of *you* ? All you need is a pair of scissors, a Sears catalogue (I'm keeping it cheap, folks) and a scanner and you are in on the "best black book".

Or like any real estate agent or politician does, you use your best picture from 15 years ago.

Ridiculous concept in all regards. As a friend of mine once said: "what is considered beauty is really just average". Personally I find the "before" pictures on make overs are usually more attractive to my eye.

I think it is because that is the way I see character in who they really are, not some average common denominator.



Rocket
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This is completely ludicrous. I have dated ladies that were what is considered "hot" and they were socially inept with average intelligence. I have dated ladies that would be considered "average" or even unattractive by the superficial among us and found them to be the most open, friendly, and intelligent people around. Many of my female friends have told me the same thing about guys they have dated. To base a dating website based entirely on looks is reminiscent of the Aryan concept.

So much for compatibility. "Sorry...I can't date you. You're a perfect match in every way except you have dry, fine hair and one foot is bigger than the other." What's next? A dating site based on income? How about based on eye color? Give me a break!

I met my wife the old fashioned way...in person, at a grocery store. She is what you would consider average looking, like me, but we are a perfect macth for each other. I hope this site fails, and fails miserably like all of the superficial, pretentious people it attracts.


TES
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Let the "beautiful people" have their own website. Can you imagine the conversations?

"OMG, UR HOT!"

"LOL! U R HOT 2!"

Let the vapid and beautiful go to it. Maybe they'll find the people they deserve.


Seven
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I love it! Internet dating is a great place to meet people. I firmly believe that looks are the first thing people are attracted to...if someone tries to tell you different...it's probably because they are ugly!


Ivy
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anyone who feels the need to value themselves based entirely if other people think they are physically atractive is bizare. it sets up poor self perceptions and the beleif that we are only valuable if others think we are. Plus the guy with the creepy eyes isn't exactly the best spokesperson, who woudl date such a freak?


Beer Goggles
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The bar example is a bad one because I'm sure we've all taken someone home from the bar who we thought was beautiful but when we woke up in the morning thought, what the hell did I drink last night!!!


Mike
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Why not? If you think it is a good idea, then it is probably the perfect site to find a match to your personality...if you are ugly, then you can stick to the other million websites


Joanne
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Oh come on - it's just a business in name of making opportunitities for singles or lonely people to fool around. That's that


IT Manager in Calgary
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I swear, people have an inherent need to be offended...

If you don't like this site's policies, DON'T GO THERE. Wow, was that ever easy!


pp
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Hmmm
There is a reason why thy need their own dating service...

It has been my experience that 'beautiful people' are the most stupid, vain, rude, uncompassionate people around.

The guys that I have dated who were 'So Fine' were in actual fact idiots - they couldn't change a tire if their life depended on it, they had no conversation skills, they were lazy beyond compare....

Now I am not ugly by any means (rather nice looking I've been told) but I can tell you - I see a man is older and not perfect and I would rather associate with less than perfect people than those that think they were 'gods greatest gift to humanity'. I want a man who is a real man - not some sissy who is afraid to get his hands dirty - I want a man who can work in the barn, build things, fix things not some fuss-pot who is afraid he 'might get blisters'. hahaha yep had one of those - shallow...

Beauty is in a smile and a kind guesture not manicured nails and perfect bodies and hairdos....


bobby
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Look at Hollywood. The beautiful people cannot sustain a marriage. It is the common folks who have the best chance of creating a healthy relationship.

I had a beautiful sister. Everyone noticed her good looks. Not me. She was a first-class jerk with no empathy for others. One gets used to beauty after a while and no longer is enthralled by it. What remains - good character - takes over if a relationship is to last.


Dave
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Those of you who are saying "Beauty is only skin deep" and "looks aren't important, personality is" and "Looks only matter if you're shallow" are 100% full of it. If you think physical attraction isn't important in a relationship, I'm sorry, but you need a reality check. You can deny the importance of physical attraction until you're blue in the face, but I'm sorry, instinct still plays a factor, and a need for physical attraction is instinct.


pp
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Careful there Paul - I am considered rather good looking, hip and sexy and I can tell you - I would rather a man who had substance than looks - the guys with looks are ALL morons. Trust me as woman who has dated some of them. The guy I am seeing now is great as far as I am concerned...

You know:
IBM has posters at work stating 'Ladies - They may be geeks - BUT they are geeks with golden futures...' - Beauty is internal not external.


Lauren
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Hahaha - Dave's comment "Could we have a dating website that bans stupid people?" was never truer - I went on this site and the first profile I clicked on, she listed her occupation as a NURCE.


Ray
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to paraphrase the now late George carlin, If you consider how stupid the average person is you then need to consider that half of the worlds population is more stupid than that... and i suspect many of those folks will be found on this website. good for them!!


Paris H.
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...That's Hot!


pp
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D.S.

That is why I don't go to bars - looser zone. The best place the meet people is by becoming active in your community, travelling, taking night courses, etc GET A LIFE... you meet REAL people in these places and you know their personality right off the bat....



Nick J Boragina
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At least I'm smart enough not to even make the attempt - Even if I got though (doubtful) why would I want someone who's shallow enough to look for love on a site like this?


Pretty Man seeking Not-So Pretty Woman
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Umm.. so I'm pretty.. but I'm not a fan of competing with pretty.. because we all know I'm the prettiest.. and if someone said otherwise, I would be crushed.

Please tell me I'm pretty.. I feed off fawning. I need praise.. and I can't possibly date another pretty person for fear that she might think I was less pretty than her..

This stupid website will never help me. I need an ugly person to think I'm much prettier than them to have a working relationship. That way neither of us will feel bad when I dump her for a slightly prettier woman.

ROFL! This website couldn't possibly promote meaningful relationships, nobody has a bathroom big enough for the products of two pretty people! Brangelina probably have walk-in closets for their cosmetics alone!




Tina
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How superficial can one be! Don't go for looks , it can decieve;Don't go for wealth_even that fades away .Go for someone who makes you smile because only smile makes a dark day seem bright . I hope that you all find that peson . It's a shame we judege people on the way they look because looks are not everything! everybody has a different perception on what is attractive !


Mike
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lol...I like it, and you know why? Because the guy is telling the truth. You can all talk about how important personality is (I don't disagree), but if you're not physically attracted to the person in the first place, you're not going to find out about their personality because you won't approach them. How many of you would honestly look at an unattractive person in a bar and say "humm, I bet she has a great personality so I'm going to try and pick her up"....come on....this is shallow...but a shallow reality.


Evan in Athabasca
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I went to that site, curiosity killed me.....just saw normal people as well, in t-shirts and such.....just another dating website....a few that were pretty ugly I guess he was desperate for members...


ARJAY
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I'm not sure that I understood Bob correctly- he hopes that the guy who promotes this website gets torn apart, because Bob doesn't like hatred? Aren't you promoting violence in the name of peace, Bob?

In any case, although this site definitely caters to the narcissistic, it only replicates electronically what happens anyway. Those of you who don't believe that looks are important are living in a sentimental fantasy. Research has shown ("It's Beauty before Brain, Psychological tests show" Ellen Bernstein, Psychcology Today) that looks are extremely important for both men and women. Both genders respond more to good looking people than ugly ones. Good looking people are more likely to be hired, and are often imbuded with positive personality traits that they don't really possess. We assume they have these traits because they are good looking, then fool ourselves into belieing that these traits are why we like them.

And yes, there are fairly universal standards of beauty. Both males and females respond to certain facial characteristics and body types because of evolutionary pressures. This holds across cultures, by the way. The sexist gender difference is that men are more willing to admit that they like hot women, while women often claim- and even believe themselves- that it's "personality" that matters. Not according to the studies. Women are just as likely to prefer good looking men over less atractive ones as men are to prefer good looking women. The only difference is that weomen are more likely to want wealth as well, again for evolutionary pressures. Women just lie about it more, even to themselves, to preserve their egos.

And before you post saying that you didn't choose your husband because of his looks or his money, you should realize that these studies don't mean that every person always does this, only that there is a general tendancy to behave this way. You probably believe that you chose your husband (or wife) because of character or loooks. But in general, that's not true. Women will put up with a lot more crap (and so will men) from a good looking partner than they would a less attractive one. We lie to ourselves all the time, because the truth would be too painful to accept.


Donna Thompson
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Ugly becomes beautiful when loved. Ugly is beautiful because ugly loves himself despite his appearance. Ugly can love better than Beauty can, beauty is stuck on herself and her own self-centered beauty, which makes it ugly to the bone.




Glen
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Wow. Question... what happens when the sex, money and looks diminish with time, then where will these poor saps go? ...oh, maybe the real world? "www.WAKEUPDUMDUMDs.com"


SG
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I don't understand a lot of the comments here. People seem to be getting really offended over something that is on the internet. I love the comments that say this site is racist and everyone are idiots and blah blah blah. If you think it's such a stupid idea, don't go to the site, it's as simple as that. If you want to get upset at anyone, get upset at CTV because this is hardly what I would call news worthy.


Donna Thompson
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Ugly is the person who came up with this detrimental idea.

I wouldn't lower myself to become involved with such shallowness.


Tara
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Aren't we all beautiful to someone? If you're going to be shallow enough to judge whether or not I'm beautiful enough to be on the site, then I don't want to date you anyway!


Beautiful Person
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Beautiful people statistically are more successful, make more money, have less time, and even less time to seek others in the same class.

People who are not beautiful simply would not understand.

Many beautiful people are actually quite modest.

DNA programs them to seek others with similar qualities.

Gotta love free enterprise.


bill from Montreal
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If you have ever dated models you know what it is like dating someone who's beautiful. Fun for about 2 weeks. Until you try playing Trivial Pursuit with them.. What the world really needs is more beautiful stupid people mating! Thanks Beautifulidiots.com


Jim
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When I'm looking for physical intimacy I don't want ugly. Beauty is only skin deep buts thats as far as I want go anyway.

If thats shallow so be it. The rest of you can keep the ugly ones.


Susanne
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It really goes to show you what society has become. We no longer care about sick the weak the hungry, the neighbour who has lost everything, the child who has no food, the handicapped people with no choice, BUT WE SURE DO CARE IF THE GOOD LOOKING ARE DATING! GET REAL! There is so much more to life! All I can add is "what goes around comes around".


Carolina
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My favourite dating advice is: Looks may fade but stupid is forever.
This site has a lot of both. They all deserve each other.


emj
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ARJAY, thank you for your educated comment! I spent an extensive amount of time studying this in school, and yes, we ARE initially attracted to people based on their looks. Don't fool yourself otherwise.

However, we tend to be generally attracted to people who look more like ourselves, which means that while there are global standards of beauty (small nose, high cheekbones, symmetry, large eyes, etc.), at the end of the day we are attracted to people who have a similar level of physical attractiveness to ourselves. This has an evolutionary advantage, because we are more likely to successfully procreate with someone who is attainable. This is why you see people with partners who are similarly attractive. The one exception is of course when wealth comes into play - you know, when you see a beautiful woman with an unattractive man, and automatically assume that he must have money. We haven't evolved all that much from our ancestors.

While I agree that the site is shallow, this is far from being the first one (ever been to hotornot.com? or the "millionaire" dating websites?), and it is up to the consumer to choose where they shop. You're probably not going to find a lasting relationship on this site - try eharmony or lavalife for that.


Dee
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Is it wrong that I can't stop laughing? I don't find this site offensive in the least, I think it'll be a great social experiment! It's getting people up-in-arms, and that's exactly the publicity they need.

I am AVERAGE, as are 99.9% of us in the human family, INCLUDING the very orange Mr. Hodge.

BUT... I find it worrisome that most of the folks on the site are of European decent, with a handful of people, like me, of African decent... But they look like Eurpeanised (is that a word??) Africans... Does that mean I'm ugly 'cause I'm not of European descent? Hahahaha! Please, no one answer that, I'm JUST KIDDING!!

Oh, and this reminds me of the something-or-other Madison people that advocated adultery... Hmmm... Where are they now???


Denise
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My thought on this is that, as an average looking person, at least I'll never have to be subjected to their narcissism, self-absorption and emotionally stunted personalities. Hey, it's a win-win situation for me!


Sal
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Physical beauty only lasts until cancer, a fire, or a car accident, disfigures.
Then you will be left for someone more "prefect" - in your "ugliness".
Sad!


FB
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These comments are great...makes for fun reading at work. Let's see if I can get people more worked up...

This website is taking a lot of heat for using the word "beautiful", but really they are letting the public choose who gets on the site, so it is the publics/users idea of beauty. They are not forcing their idea of beautiful on the public. It's just a word. As more and more people join and the perception of beauty broadens with each new member this site will just become another dating site with the word beautiful in the name.
Anyway this site is far less evil than other dating sites that are out there like those set up to arrange extra-marital affairs.


Kev of Dundas
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It is not this site or this idea that is ugly, it is ourselves.

The reason we are *offended* ?

Because we see that this is how we operate.

To admit it is to show our ugly side, and that's offensive.


Nick J Boragina
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On second thought I think this is a good idea after all.

All those shallow people you meet on regular dating sites will be attracted here instead, where they can bumble though meaningless relationship after meaningless relationship, while leaving the real world (and chances at, oh I dunno, marriage to someone you actually care for?) to the rest of us adults.


Shannon, Vancouver
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I looked at the "prospects" on this website, and I had to laugh! First of all, all the photos resembled that of a maxim photo shoot ... like I want a guy who poses in the ocean or lounges on a couch flexing his abs! Please! Secondly, the education level (or lack thereof) cracked me up! Wow! Perhaps Darwin's theory of evolution will play a part in this website, and weed out these mornons from the gene pool eh!


Roger T
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I think it's fair. It's a business so if people feel beautiful and wants someone to match their status it's a preferrence.

Only makes sense that you're with someone you have an attraction to rather than those pre-arrange marriages or suppose to people in certian cultures who you can't even see the woman's face because of their clothings they are forced to wear.

Different strokes for different folks.


Alberta Believer
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I think the only reason why this is news is becasue the site may potentially run into trouble for "discrimination" in our "everyone is equal" "everything is acceptable" culture here in Canada.

Competition, elimination, qualifying, merit, earning defeating, victory, winners, losers. Meet the new "swear words" in our politically correct feel-good society that is being pretty much led by the Human Rights Tribunals and enforced in the nation's public schools.

Why do beautifull people need a dating site? Because like most minorities they sometimes have trouble meeting up with similarly disposed persons.

But here in Canada any deeemd "successful minority of persons does't quite jerk the tears the same way as the groups with actual sob stories!


Carrie
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Personally I think the idea is a load of crap, but I'm astonished at the number of people here who think that beautiful equals stupid, or that pretty people can't also be smart, clever, funny, or interesting. By the same token, why does everyone assume that "ugly" people ARE smart, witty, etc?

There's no black and white here. Everyone has beautiful things about them and ugly things about them - and they're not all physical. Which is precisely why this dating site comes across as a cash-grabbing bit of idiocy. Let the people who want to join give it a go, while the rest of us can keep going along our merry ways, enjoying beauty wherever we happen to find it.


Anastasia
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Finally, something that you don't take forever looking for the 1 good looking person after pages and pages of just ok looking people. Having good looks helps, period, nothing else needs to be said. If your not that...then oh well, move on.


Alberta Believer
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"What next? beautifulwhitepeople.com or beautifulpeopleofcolour.com....give me a break. The undertone of this idea is secular and racist."

Newsflash Kieth, there are already dating sites for blacks, Jews and other minroties. Oh and with the conventional sites, I can as a racist white guy simply seek out only the white women and chatr with them until I find one of a similar mindset.

So yes Adolf can potentially met Eva on any dating site out there, which is one area where the Human Rights Commissions and the PC Police can't guard against.

PS. You shouldda seen this heated debate we had on minorities in Canada on PlentyOFish last month!)



Melissa
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Why would "beautiful people" need a dating website?
Perhaps that tells you something right there about the personalities of these people.

You can't define beauty, to each their own. There are people who find Angelina Jolie attractive and some who don't.

It's sad that they need a dating website and even sadder that the average person can't handle them in real life...

I've personally viewed this website, and I'd have to say, the people that make it, aren't as "beautiful" as they think they are.


Leonardo Bustamie
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Beautiful people dont need a site !!!! They always meet their significant others every where :):):)

It is more of a business. I bet this site will have high membership fees than other sites...


Abdul
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ARJAY

Citing the article by Ellen Bernstein in Psychology Today really requires that you should have read more than the abstract.

Acknowledging that we are attracted to beauty that we apply characteristics not associated to the person is the gist of the article not any sort of defence of errant behaviour.

This website encourages even by Ms Bernstein's standards negative social behaviour.

Contrary to this article you may want to Read Jeff Howe's article "A Reason to Smile
Beautiful people with ugly personalities—are not so pretty." Psychology Today Magazine, Mar/Apr 1999

BTW it's Psychology not Psychcology.


Mickey
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Sounds like a walking lawsuit if you ask me. The Human Rights Organizations best get ready for the ugly folks lining up to scream discrimination.


Laura Langstaff
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Well, having taken a boo at the manager, noting the incongrously matched sides of his face, the lazy eyelid, and pasty white complexion, I'm thinkin they should be hiring a better looker to be spokesperson. Or maybe not, if he represents the interpretation of good lookin, maybe there's nothing to worry about after all. Chortle, snort.


Northern Pike
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She ain't pretty, she just looks that way...


bren
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I call BS on these arguments. I DO Agree it is snotty and stuck up, and frankly I think I would have nothing in common with any of thesepeople who are so high on themselves, let alone want to date one. HOwever, we are not attracted to personality first. We are animals.We go for looks. thee is a biological and evolutionary reason for this.Now..this might only be at first, but it is stil a preliminary factor in rating someones attractiveness.I am sure that brad pitt and angelina jolie have great personalities and sharp minds, and that alone is the reason why they are two of the biggest sex symbols of our time.Give me a break. And ladies..you are just as bad as men are..so dont think its just a male issue.I am sure that six pack abs are a real turn off!!


Krista
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Sorry but I disagree with most of you. I have never dated a guy I wasn't physically attracted to. So if I'm shallow then I'll accept that - that's reality people. If I'm trying to pick up a guy, I'm going to approach the good looking ones, not the ugly ones. Anyone who's ever joined a dating site knows how boring it is to search through ads and have to keep skipping through people who you would never date... this site is just weeding those people out - the chances of someone contacting them anyway were slim... it's internet dating people! If you want people who aren't shallow, then get off the internet. If you don't like how this site runs, then don't join... you probably wouldn't have been picked anyway.


Shawn
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well... enough with the "this is not news worthy" comments on EVERY story... if you dont like the story by the title then dont read it... i enjoy variety in my "news"... secondly in a world were ashleymadison.com (dating services for cheaters) can survive i am sure this will too... its just reality in western society


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