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Parents pick prayer over doctor; diabetic girl dies

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Date: Friday Mar. 28, 2008 7:19 AM ET

WESTON, Wis. — Police are investigating an 11-year-old girl's death from an undiagnosed, treatable form of diabetes after her parents chose to pray for her rather than take her to a doctor.

An autopsy showed Madeline Neumann died Sunday of diabetic ketoacidosis, a condition that left too little insulin in her body, Everest Metro Police Chief Dan Vergin said.

She had probably been ill for about a month, suffering symptoms such as nausea, vomiting, excessive thirst, loss of appetite and weakness, the chief said Wednesday, noting that he expects to complete the investigation by Friday and forward the results to the district attorney.

The girl's mother, Leilani Neumann, said that she and her family believe in the Bible and that healing comes from God, but that they do not belong to an organized religion or faith, are not fanatics and have nothing against doctors.

She insisted her youngest child, a wiry girl known to wear her straight brown hair in a ponytail, was in good health until recently.

"We just noticed a tiredness within the past two weeks," she said Wednesday. "And then just the day before and that day (she died), it suddenly just went to a more serious situation. We stayed fast in prayer then. We believed that she would recover. We saw signs that to us, it looked like she was recovering."

Her daughter -- who hadn't seen a doctor since she got some shots as a 3-year-old, according to Vergin -- had no fever and there was warmth in her body, she said.

The girl's father, Dale Neumann, a former police officer, said he started CPR "as soon as the breath of life left" his daughter's body.

Family members elsewhere called authorities to seek help for the girl.

"My sister-in-law, she's very religious, she believes in faith instead of doctors ...," the girl's aunt told a sheriff's dispatcher Sunday afternoon in a call from California. "And she called my mother-in-law today ... and she explained to us that she believes her daughter's in a coma now and she's relying on faith."

The dispatcher got more information from the caller and asked whether an ambulance should be sent.

"Please," the woman replied. "I mean, she's refusing. She's going to fight it. ... We've been trying to get her to take her to the hospital for a week, a few days now."

The aunt called back with more information on the family's location, emergency logs show. Family friends also made a 911 call from the home. Police and paramedics arrived within minutes and immediately called for an ambulance that took her to a hospital.

But less than an hour after authorities reached the home, Madeline -- a bright student who left public school for home schooling this semester -- was declared dead.

She is survived by her parents and three older siblings.

"We are remaining strong for our children," Leilani Neumann said. "Only our faith in God is giving us strength at this time."

The Neumanns said they moved from California to a modern, middle-class home in woodsy Weston, just outside Wassau in central Wisconsin, about two years ago to open a coffee shop and be closer to other relatives. A basketball hoop is set up in the driveway.

Leilani Neumann said she and her husband are not worried about the investigation because "our lives are in God's hands. We know we did not do anything criminal. We know we did the best for our daughter we knew how to do."

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EJ
said

I have faith and believe in the Bible as well however I do also believe that God does bring healing and there maybe times when we humans needs assistance from the medical world.


Somebody's Mom
said

Reminds me of the other one.."I sent you a boat, I sent you a plane...."

Too bad for the girl. Lots of life left when you are 11. As for the parents....it was their job to raise their daughter - not God's.


CARDIACJOE
said

God helps those who help themselves


A Montrealer
said

A person's religious beliefs should never supercede life saving medical attention. The results can be, and, in this case were tragic and unnecessary when medical intervention would have resulted in a total recovery. What a sad loss of life that didn't need to happen! The parents need to take responsibility for their inaction and for just standing by while their daughter was dying. Doing nothing for their daughter and only using their faith and prayer is totally irresponsible.


Andrew
said

Faith can be a wonderful thing, but it's no replacement for proper medical attention. People who believe otherwise should not have kids. For the sake of their other children let's hope none of them get sick.


kd
said

Freedom of religion should mean children are free from their parents religion.


We must do our part . . .
said

I am a Christ-follower, and believe without doubt in the power of God to bring healing under any and all circumstances.
BUT: God uses the gifts he has given to mankind, including the gifts he gave medical people.
If we choose not to make use of these gifts, we're usually on our own.

Reminds me of a story: During a huge flood, a man was sitting on the rooftop of his house. A few people in a boat came by, and said" Hop in".
His reply: "No thanks, I believe in God to save me".
A bit later a helicopter came overhead. He refused their help: "No thanks, I believe in God to save me".
After he drowned, and appeared before God, he asked: "God, I believed in you! Why did you let me down?"
God answered: "I sent a boat, and I sent a helicopter. You refused my help. What else did you expect me to do?"



Ian - Milton
said

To CARDIACJOE

Actually the Bible never says that - anywhere. It does say God helps those who run to him and seek His help (and use their God-given common sense in life!)

This is another common quote with no reality - exactly the same as "Money is the root of all evil" - nope, never says that - it says that the pursuit (constant desire for more above all else) is the root of many evil actions by people.

I really feel empathy for this situation.

By the way if you believe in God - you will know that He created medicines and doctors and hospitals ...


Rob
said

God had provided them help - in the form of doctors.


Eric
said

This is an unfortunate example that the exiled Puritan mentality still lives strong within the U.S. Maybe they should start taking a new approach to modern medicine. Perhaps God gave us the ability to learn about ourselves, and heal one another. God's healing doesn't necessarily have to come from him directly. We are all God's children, and siblings should be allowed to help one another, when their parents cannot.


Bob
said

Most certainly the parents should have made certain their daughter was receiving the proper medical treatment for being a diabetic and use your faith and prayer along with that but keep in mind that other peoples problems or afflictions of a different type it should never be considered a forceful thing that its wise to take a doctors advice. Many even non religious people say turn down chemo for they don't want to go through its effects, so keep in mind a religious person may turn down a treatment of some sort but also state they're trusting in God. Not wanting to go through the side effects may be apart of the equation for them as well. I do believe however most certainly this young girl should have received the life saving diabetic treatment.




Dean
said

Seems to me that "God" made sure that medical help was available to this family. Apparently they were listening to a different "God"?


Melissa
said

God is the inventor of MEDICINE, how else would it get here?
He gave us the tools to provide cures to the sick.


Peggy
said

In certain situations, sometimes you need more than just prayers.


Ed
said

Once again we see the true power of prayer. Yet people continue to cling to their superstitions.


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