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Dad selling son's Guitar Hero on eBay as punishment

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The Canadian Press

Date: Friday Dec. 14, 2007 11:45 AM ET

TORONTO — A claim on eBay that a Canadian man was putting a popular video game up for sale rather than give it to his pot-smoking son has sparked an online debate and led to the item being bid up to more than $9,000 -- 100 times its retail value.

"While I doubt this will keep him from ever smoking pot again, I think it will make him think twice before doing illegal drugs on my property,'' the man, with the user name "k_lid'' and identified only as from Canada, said on a letter accompanying the game's sale on the online auction site eBay.

K-lid said he found it hard to justify rewarding his 15-year-old son with the gift after he found the boy smoking pot in the backyard and "greatly disappointed me''.

''I am an elementary school teacher and I know that rewarding bad behaviour is just asking for more of the same," reads the letter.

While the site did not offer more details about the seller and he could not immediately be contacted, he was listed as a good-faith eBay user since 2002.

The compassionate letter attracted hundreds of comments from other eBay users, most of them siding with the disappointed father.

Others accused him of publicly humiliating his son. The game in question was the hard-to-find "Guitar Hero III'' for the Nintendo Wii.

Even websites joined in the discussion.

justpressplay.net ran the father's letter with an invitation of its own at the end:

"If you want to help ruin this kid's holiday spirit even more, bid on the auction here,'' said a story on the website providing a link to the auction.

After 42 bids the unopened $89.99 game -- released in October -- sold on Dec. 10 for $9,100.01 to an Australian buyer by the user name "aspire1700computer''.

EBay auctions are often purchased for unusually high prices by buyers seeking publicity.

''Most of you have supported me'' the defiant dad wrote after the auction closed.

"Some of you think I should just shrug off the pot-smoking incident, but I think most of those people do not have children of their own''.

And to his son -- "I hope you've learned your lesson.''

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alberta
said

Now that is what I call good parenting.


Mark
said

To publicly humiliate his son on ebay or any other form, is not right, although there are no names attached. I believe he could have thought of a more warranted punishment.
As for the person that paid over 9k for this item, they must have more money than brains.
As for the father, he should not benifit from his son's mistake. After you recoup your money, you should donate the money to a drug rehab.


stephen034
said

This could be a hoax as it could have all been made up to sell the game for higher than the buyer paid. Similar to the supposed "bride meltdown" video where she cut off her hair. If it's online, take it with a grain of salt.

Or I could be wrong.


a parent
said

Good For him!!!!


Jason
said

What a JOKE! This Dad is way out to lunch. He did it to make money can't you all see this... I hope he donates his 9000 + to Charity this holiday season!


Eric
said

How did this make the news?


E. MacLachlan
said

What lesson? The father made money off his son. Did it really happen even or was just a scam? So much for the Christmas Spirit. Never heard of actually listening to your son? How about having a conversation with him. Giving me guidance, showing him compassion. I think the father needs to seek counselling with his son.


SR
said

I myself do not have kids, but I would do the same thing. The father is right by doing this. I truly hope the son has learned his lesson and stops doing drugs.


M. Cameron
said

Go Dad Go!


Joe C
said

Good for you, K-lid. This kid should not be rewarded for his behaviour, and I think that you were in the right for not giving him the game.


Jason
said

Great job on the father's part... About time us parents take action without violence but come up with a great solution.

Congrats!!!


DG
said

I agree with Dad on this one...bad behaviour should not be rewarded. Our children need to know there are consequences for decions made...good or bad. I hope Dad uses the extra cash to donate to Alanon or some other organization that deals with kids and/or dopes on dope.


Sherry
said

Well, first off, I don't see anywhere where names are given. So how could this be public humiliation? Secondly, this is excellent parenting!! I wish more parents stood up to thier kids instead of coddling them all the time!!


Rob
said

I almost understand this guy... he shouldn't reward his son...but I doubt this will help... actually, I'm almost sure his son will feel hurt, irate..and probably do more pot just to spite his father...i hope they both come around.


jb
said

I took away my daughter access to the computer until she brings her grades up. I think it's a perfect answer to the pot smoking teens rehabilitation.
And for you detractors, I doubt the K-lid knew in advance he was going to get 9 grand for the game. After all it was an auction wasn't it.


ance
said

I think this will just wedge the kid even farther from his dad and the path he wants him on.

There are better ways to communicate with kids... I raised two successfuly and never had to resort to something this.

It's not the withholding of the toy that bothers me... its the cruel attitide of the father to make the kid into a public spectacle.

Kids are smart and the boy either has or will figure out that this is a bully's power play, not the act of a loving dad.

I would keep the toy and make the kid earn it back thru positive behaviour. Let him know it's there for his next birhtday or some occasion if his behaviour improves.




Mike M
said

"humiliate his son"?
Come on guys, this is not humiliation, this is a common-sense "stick and carrot" approach. I know from my own experience, this way works well with kids.
Way to go, men!


Samantha from Halifax
said

When I was 13, I was camping with my mother for a summer, as we waited for my father to join us on the weekends when he finished the week's work. I knew that he was bringing me a surprise one weekend - a stereo - and I was so excited. Some friends and I broke into a school and conducted some fairly innocuous mischief; the RCMP were involved nonetheless. My mother lost her mind and my father, when he arrived, was very disappointed. I mentioned to him, head hung low, that I guessed I wasn't getting my present after all. He said that although he was disappointed he bought the present for me because he loved me and thought I would enjoy having it for the summer. He added that hadn't changed and gave it to me anyway. To tell you the truth, looking back, the way I felt at him giving it to me anyway felt worse than it would have had he kept it. I learned something more important that day...my father's love for me wasn't dependent on my actions, nor was it measured by what he gave me or didn't. The "guitar hero" father's son will not have the opportunity to learn this as well.


Uwe Warkholdt
said

Perhaps drug rehab would have been a more constructive approach. Not only will his son, I suspect, will dispise his father for this but he will not get the treatment he obviously needs. Intervention is the key. In my opinion if he is not put on the right road now he will lead a life of disappointment or maybe worse.


June
said

Since all identity remains anonymous, I don't see where the father humiliated the child. Kudos for the father!!!! maybe this child as his action depicts will have learned his lesson. Enhances the addage "as long as you're in my house, you abide by my rules". The father will not have any control when his son leaves his house but as long as he is at home, THE KING RULES!!!!


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