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25 Moving Movie Moments for Men
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Date: Thu. Nov. 8 2007 2:09 PM ET
Real men don't cry, right? Heck, they don't show any emotion at all. The average guy is a rock steady super-human, who, in the infamous words of Dennis Leary, is a "suburbanized slob" who likes "football and porno and books about war." Indeed.
So, following that line, men definitely don't cry during movies. Instead, it is said, at the most they get "choked" up. Getting "choked up" is infinitely more manly and far more accepted than crying.
In honour of this sentiment, we've compiled a list of the 25 most moving movie moments for men. What follows is a hallowed list of films, each with a special moment or scene during which time even the most ardent purveyor of masculinity may lose his cool, experience an emphatic shiver or maybe even have to wipe away a gentle trickle from the side of his stubly cheek.
The common thread, while not unanimous, though, seems to be something to do with brotherhood, bonding and shared experience. So, on that note, prepare to get, well, choked up.
Woman: "Are YOU crying?"
Man: "Sniff; no, no, I just got some of this, ah, zesty popcorn powder in my eye. Uh, yeah. I'll be fine."
The following is listed in no particular order, but we're warning you, have your hanky handy ...
Next: Butch & Sundance go out in a blaze of glory >
Maybe it's that moment when Wind in his Hair asks Dances with Wolves if he can see that "he is his friend" and tells him that he "will always be [his] friend" that we missed. Tell us your weepy movie moments.

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I agree with Saving Private Ryan. The opening scene where the old man is in the cemetery. Moving stuff
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(1) most scenes from the Rocky movie series after he get married (check out Rocky 4 when he goes from fighting with Adrian to talking to his son to flashbacks about his time with Appollo Creed)
(2) the Rob Reiner film Stand by Me
(3) the last few minutes of To Sir With Love
(4) the scenes involving James dean and Jim Backus in Rebel Without a Cause where they are trying hard to understand each other
(5) British working class men struggling with their identity in both Billy Elliott and The Full Monty
(6) The scene in the movie Parenthood involving Steve Martin and Jason Robards where they go from being "men" to vulnerable father and son and back to "men" again (actually the whole movie does this very well
(7) the scene from Shadowlands in the attic in which Anthony Hopkins and his new son share their saddness and uncertainty about the death of Joy (Debra Winger)
(8) the scene from An Officer and a Gentleman in which Richard gere's character is forced to be humble and admit he has "nowhere else to go" after being humiliated/broken by his sargent Lou Gossett
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(9) many scenes from the movie Brokeback Mountain
(10) Brian's Song and Remember the Titans
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Of course, if you ask them now, they don't cry at anything, let alone "stupid" movies.
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How many ball players grow up afraid of losing their fathers' love every time they come up to the plate?
All of them.
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Also, I agree with the other person about "It's a Wonderful Life" - how can you leave that out? (As compared to things like "ET", and "Midnight Cowboy" (which any "real man" would never watch anyway!)
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The Hunt for Red October: We listened to Vasily's simple hopes for life in the new world: To live in Montana, raise rabbits and perhaps own an RV and drive state to state (do they let you do that? No papers?). It was a pretty crushing moment when he was shot.
Wargames: "20 seconds to impact..." as General Beringer has been persuaded to ride out the attack, we see hundreds of Soviet missiles on the computer screens, detonating on U.S. soil. "This is Crystal Palace. Are you still on? Is anyone there?" and the painful silence until, "Yeah, we're here! ... We're still here!"
Most people probably haven't seen the HBO Original "By The Dawn's Early Light" but if you lived during the cold war, you should. The ending of that film will choke you up more than any of the others, and make you proud too.
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I cried like a little girl.
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When Cloud Strife flashes back into a dream and speaks with Aeris. The memory of Final Fantasy VII comes back, and you think "My God... he's still haunted by her death after all these years."
... and it's just a bloody video game.
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"I love Brian Piccolo, and I want you to love him, too."
It's football with crying! How much more dudely can ya get?
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I love Brian Piccolo!
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It "moistens the eyes" every time.
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When John Capaletti won the Heisman and gave the trophy to his brother.
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--gets me everytime!
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2)Robt Redford hitting the homerun in "the Natural"
3)Mark Wahlberg blocking the punt and scoring in "Invincible".
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Last scene where Kevin(Ray Consello
Found that scene very meaningful to me as it reminded me of my dad and myself.
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I also thought Pride of the Yankees should have made the list too.
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Gotta concur with Field of Dreams, tho.
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GO 24!!!!!!!!!!
Also, real men can feel sad, but they dont cry
Finally, when Dances with Wolves departs with the Indians is a sad part too.
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When Private Ryan as an adult asks his wife if he lead a good life while kneeling at the Omaha Beach headstone of Tom Hanks "capt" in Saving Private Ryan.
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Purple" EVERYONE in the audience was crying,
including all the men.
Somehow,since everyone was crying,and everyone knew it,it was OK for everyone. It was quite a moment. Mostly the scene when Celie and Nettie reunite.
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Brian's Song
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That movie broke down 30 college guys watching it in the dorm.
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