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Women find happy men less sexy, study finds

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Sample study images of happiness, pride and shame. (Jessica Tracy/ handout)

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Date: Tue. May. 24 2011 9:15 PM ET

We've heard it before: nice guys finish last. And when it comes to sexual attraction, it appears the rule holds.

A new study finds that women are more attracted to the brooding, "bad boy" rather than happy-go-lucky guys.

Now before you go asking, "They needed a study to tell us that?!", hear us out. The University of British Columbia researchers who worked on the study say there's an inherent contradiction in this finding.

They note that in almost every social interaction -- including those involving sexual attraction -- smiling is actually considered essential. But when it comes to first impressions, women seem to prefer men who look either sullen or boastful.

The study from UBC's Deptartment of Psychology involved more than 1,000 men and women who were asked to rate how sexually attractive they found hundreds of pictures of people of the opposite sex.

The pictures showed men and women engaged in standard displays of happiness (broad smiles), pride (raised heads, puffed-up chests) or shame (lowered heads, averted eyes).

When they asked the women which images they found sexiest, the women tended to be least interested in the smiling, happy men. They instead preferred either those who looked proud and powerful, or moody and ashamed.

In contrast, men were most sexually attracted to women who looked happy, and least attracted to women who appeared proud and confident.

Alec Beall, a UBC psychology graduate student and one of the study's co-authors says it's important to remember that the study was meant to explore first impressions of sexual attraction.

"We were not asking participants if they thought these targets would make a good boyfriend or wife – we wanted their gut reactions on carnal, sexual attraction," he explained in a news release.

He notes that previous studies have found nice personalities and positive emotions are highly desirable in relationship partners. But when it comes to sexual attraction, women seem to like their men "complicated."

Why would women like men who looked ashamed? Prof. Jessica Tracy of UBC's Deptartment of Psychology, who also worked on the study, has a theory.

She says displays of shame suggest the men are aware of social norms and appeasement behaviors, which suggests they are trustworthy, a trait that is valued by both sexes.

As for why the women preferred the men who raised their arms in pride, that one was a bit easier to explain.

First off, the pride expression accentuated the men's physical features, such as upper body size and muscularity, which may have helped to make the men more sexually attractive.

As well, evolutionary theories suggest females are often attracted to male displays of pride because they imply status and competence. Smiling, on the other hand, is often linked with a lack of dominance.

Men may have preferred the smiling women because happiness is considered a particularly feminine-appearing expression.

And like it or not, traditional gender norms call for men to be dominant and strong, and women to be submissive and vulnerable.

"Generally, the results appear to reflect some very traditional gender norms and cultural values that have emerged, developed and been reinforced through history, at least in Western cultures," Tracy said in the news release.

"These include norms and values that many would consider old-fashioned and perhaps hoped that we've moved beyond."

The study appears in the online edition of the American Psychological Association journal Emotion.

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Jake in wpg
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George V's comment ftw!


Chris
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I just like women, period. If they're B...hes, I don't want anything to do with them. If they're happy and like to party as much as I do, I'm attracted to them. Women don't look at us like that. They look for MONEY and POWER... simple as that!!! If you have no money, and look wimpy they won't give you the time of day. MONEY and POWER is all they want out of men!!!


Daniel
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Come on guys, this study simplifies everything way too much. We all know that attraction is a lot more complicated than a set of five facial expressions. It's funny how people quickly jump to conclusions when one study validates their archahic, black and white mind set.


Old Ted
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They hook up with the bad boy then wonder why they are beaten, treated like crap, left home alone while he is out with the boys and generally shown no respect. Want to be a loser, hook up with one of these losers.


Laurie
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that is because women who would judge men on that basis are mentally disturbed.


Prof. Pye Chartt
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@ Gerald: I'm happily married, my friend. Just making a zippy observational comment. Your apparent need to address my remark indicates a unnecessary "seriousness" on your part. Lighten up. Thanks.


Kitlope
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And in other news, the divorce rate just shot up 10%.


James
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I wasn't drawn to my wife on the basis of her sexual attraction... but one a whole range of other qualities and character traits including her system of beliefs. The sex thing works best once the rest is in place. Getting one's priorities straight helps in the final process.


Stevie
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in Quebec...as long as he/she is not a virgin. Anything goes!


Michael
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When we live in a society that calls good "bad" and bad good little wonder women are so screwed up in what to look for that makes up good character to seek out in a husband of boyfriend. No surprise there.


George V.
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They like the sullen, sad, depressed look guys, that way they will know exactly what a happy go lucky guy will look like after they marry him.


Michael from Toronto
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what dorky answers! Women like troubled men because those women want to be needed. They want their men to need them. It's an insurance policy against infidelity. The same women will not go for boastful men - rather, other women who do not like troubled men will go for strong, proud men because it is a sign of power and those women are attracted to men who can take care of them. Simple.As for men, we like happy women because we want to have fun with women, not be saddled with someone with perpetual PMS. Men who do go for troubled women must have "issues", perhaps lacking confidence.


Dave
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Let's not kid ourselves. Men find good looking women attractive and in most cases are more concerned with body features than facial expressions. You know it's true guys!


Jason
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Don't over-analysis it. Could it just be that the photo of the guy displaying "Happiness" looks like a D.B.?


Chris
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This is a generalization that doesn't apply to a lot of us women. My single friends are staying single because they actually don't want to deal with trying to fix a guy's problems OR take care of him. They want someone without bad baggage (nasty ex-wife or out of control kids) and also someone interested in having a relationship of mutual respect, fun, good communication and sharing. I guess WE are either not looking in the right place or the men are just not interested because WE are too happy with our lives already.


Robert
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Real women want men who are strong, confident and in control. It's always been that way and it always will.


robin hood
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It’s just the woman’s way of allowing her mate to feel superior when we all know that’s not true—vulnerable UNDERVALUED!


Ken
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Most women dont know what they want. They married someone, then want to change that same person they married. Why? If you are not happy with that person, why married him at first place?


Eve
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It is true that many women or shall we say "girls" initially like guys that "appear strong", and I think they often equate that with moody or difficult demeanors because they consider that challenging and interesting, perhaps even complex. I can honestly say that these "complex" men are in fact less strong than the men who have balance. I would take a fun, easy going, loyal man over any of them, any day of the week. Why? Because ladies, these so-called "challenging" men or shall I say "boys" aren't there for YOU and if you are honest with yourselves, probably never really were unless it benefitted them. Wake up and don't waste your time or your life!! Give the good guys a chance because they are so worth it in the long run. Life is hard enough so why have a guy that brings you down? A man with a positive outlook and who makes you smile makes a relationship so very worthwhile.


Chris, Alberta
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Wow - there's some awfully bitter sounding comments here ... Yikes!!


Intelligent Liberal
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Married men die several years before their wives do, on average, based on actuarial results. The reason is - they want to.


Susan
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Sorry, I just read after commenting before, that the men were most interested in women who looked "happy" yet I have heard many men state that they like the looks of pouty women.


Susan
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Very interesting but Is that really true? I have gone out with a couple of real grouchy men and after that decided that I prefer happy men to those who look mean and miserable (because they usually are). But it probably is true that too much smiling in a guy is sometimes equated to some degree of femininity. I don't know whether that's something that's been taught to us socially or whether it's really true.I wish you would do a study about men with women. My feeling is that a lot of men also tend to be attracted to pouty women versus smiling.


Gerald
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@Prof. Pye Chartt.. Lighten up , don't be so serious .


dorian
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Women will continue to make poor choices until they learn to fall in love with the person and not the things that surround them.Men on the other hand tend to fall in love with their women, which probably explains why they take longer to get over failed relationships.


gee
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Women choose their own misery and unhappiness, then complain about them. Go figure.


James
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I'd rather be happy than a jerk, and prudent than a fool.


R Hilton
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So, that's why I'm happily single!


Prof. Pye Chartt
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Yep. And this is still how so many women foolishly bugger their lives...by engaging their "animal" instincts (instead of their higher human intelligence) and hooking-up with self-centered, self-absorbed, overconfident turkeys who intermittently treat them like dispensable chattel, regard their buds, bros, and business career as more important, think that the kids really belong to "Mom," and someday find an irresistible extracurricular activity with a flirtatious three-beers-and-I'm-loaded gal at a client's golf tournament. Yeah; those smiley, humorous types are so unreliable, unexciting, and unworthy of you, ladies. Choosing an adult "frat boy" or "Captain Serious" always makes more sense. Yep.


Bob in Ottawa
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Woman dont know what they want


Sean - Moncton
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Women aren't attracted to "bad boys", they are attracted to traits that the "bad boy" possesses. Willingness to lead, agression dominance, social status. "Nice Guys" tend to be submissive, have low social status and generally not portray these sort of qualities. Society has raised a whole generation of men teaching them to "be nice" when in reallity this sort of behaviour leads to nothing but sexual frustration. It's time we realize that men and women are biologically different and embrace our natural gender roles. Society would be better off for it.


Patricia
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Many women never get past the urge to "rescue" bad boys. If you don't get over this immature attraction, you continue forming relationships with men who are self-centered and hopeless as grown-up partners in life. A rewarding mature relationship is completely beyond these guys.


Mick Shrimpton
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Mr Schwarzenegger is full of Pride and has been known to be Boastful. What the national divorce rate now? 50%? 75%?


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