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This story has now given me the incentive to make next Monday my "best" day of the year. I am really looking forward to it. Let's all work together and prove the experts wrong.

John Cropper (Orillia ON.)

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Vow to beat 'most depressing day of the year'

Date: Saturday Jan. 15, 2011 8:24 PM ET

This Monday, if you don't feel like heading into work or school, don't bother. The experts have decided the day is already doomed.

More specifically, what the "experts" have decided is that Monday, Jan. 17 is "Blue Monday" -- the most depressing day of the year.

It's a day when the afterglow of the holidays has finally dimmed, when the weather is likely rotten, when the bills from the holidays have crushed down upon us, and when we've realized we've failed -- yet again -- in our New Year's resolutions.

The date is, of course, a bit of a fabrication. It was invented in 2005 by Cliff Arnall, a former psychology lecturer at the University of Cardiff, Wales, who was paid by a travel company to devise a formula for finding "the most depressing day of the year" in order to encourage Britons to book a holiday.

Here's his perhaps deliberately complicated equation:

[W+ (D-d)} x T to the power of Q, divided by (M x NA)

Put another way: (W) weather plus (D) debt minus your monthly salary, multiplied by (T) the time since Christmas, (Q) time since failed quit attempt, divided by (M) low motivational levels and (NA) the need to take action.

The figures might seem stacked against us, but take heart: while there's not much we can do about the weather, there's plenty we can do about our motivational levels and our failed New Year's resolutions.

Ian Newby-Clark, an associate professor of applied social psychology at the University of Guelph, says the first step is not to beat ourselves up about our broken New Year's resolutions.

Instead, we should commend ourselves for recognizing that there's something about ourselves that needs changing and for making what he calls a "self-change decision." We should then reflect on why we failed and then figure out how we're going to get back on track.

Newby-Clark says New Year's resolutions are too often vague and made hastily on New Year's Eve. It's no surprise then, that those plans often fail.

"Resolutions that aren't made with full resolve are going to be the ones that do not succeed," he told CTV.ca in a phone interview.

So there's no point in vowing to eat better, he says, if we haven't thought through how we're going to do that and how those around us are going to support us in that goal.

"You need to make meal plans, and then plan when you're going to go to the store, and when you're going to prepare these foods, and where you're going to eat them," he said.

The other way we fail in our goals is by making them too difficult to achieve, he said.

"People often make resolutions that involve changing habits. But habits are, by definition, highly-ingrained behaviours that are virtually automatic. Those kinds of behaviours are difficult to change. So what can you do about that? One, is to acknowledge to yourself that you're going to change a habit that's going to be hard to change. So set a reasonable goal," he said.

"If your resolution is to yell at your kids less, don't expect to go from always yelling to suddenly never yelling."

He advises making a few small "milestone" goals that are easier to achieve, rather than one large lofty goal.

"There's nothing like achieving a small goal to make you feel like you can achieve more. Most self-change is gradual and incremental. So set your sights lower than your eventual goal to make it achievable, so you can hit the goal."

So instead of spending "Blue Monday" grumbling about the bills, the depressing grey skies, and your winter blues, vow to spend the time planning how you'll get back on track with you New Year's resolutions.

And then start looking forward to June 17.

That's the day that Cliff Arnall -- this time, paid by an ice cream company -- has decided is "the happiest day of the year."

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Cambob in Toronto
said

When someone you love passes away, every Monday is blue for a very long time. Be thankful for the time you can share with those who matter most.


Shelby
said

... and writing articles like this will definitely make the problem worse, for those who choose not to think for themselves. They'll just think, "Oh, it's going to be depressing because 'experts' think it is..." and they'll feel depressed on Monday.This is completely ridiculous. How much did you get paid to write this garbage?


Shaun
said

Here's a thought to help prevent this fabricated "Blue Monday", stay within your budget and pay for Christmas gifts in cash instead of swiping the credit card. Stop trying to keep with the Jones's!

We did this year for the first time and there is nothing blue in our household.


akm
said

do not worry its all to do with the stars being re-aligned monday has ben changed to tuesday and so on ???


Sam C
said

The key to the story is that the date is a fabrication -- with NO real science involved -- and the study was commissioned by a travel agency to help promote mid-winter, off-season bookings. As someone who experiences true Seasonal Depression, I know that by January 17 I am starting to feel better as the days grow noticeably longer.


TerryR Lethbridge
said

Since this was determined by experts why not turn it into a national holiday. We can have huge parties, buy gifts of medication and pass around, have competitions to see who can look the most pitiful. We will call it The Great National Pity Party Day.


D.A. Funk
said

Blue Monday...Mental illness is not to be ridiculed or encouraged. Profiting on the misery of others is pathetic. Shoppers subjected to a barrage of bargains often regret purchases. My personal motto: Today I'm gonna make yesterday jealous. Try it - you'll like it!


rick
said

think of something you really enjoy doing and do it, and then start every action with a smile and see who joins in.


Will
said

An advertising gimmick and they all take it seriously....... Remember Orson Wells and the "War of the Worlds". I do. I listened to the broadcast live and we could not understand how anyone could take it seriously., just good entertainment, but...... there are lots of fools int he world; just look at all the ones buying into the climate change/global warming garbage.


Liz
said

*yawn* another pointless study....zzz


Bernie
said

When I read about Justin Beibers toque being stolen in New Zealand..I thought that there could be no lessor newsworthy story to report...boy was I wrong. Oh and for those still following the stolen knit cap story...it still has not been found...I repeat, the Beib is still "toqueless". Now that's depressing. Hope to have more to report on this as the days progress...stay tuned.


Kevin
said

Order a pizza and put on some Mexican Mariachi music! That'll liven' you up!


Bruce
said

To a person who is depressed most of the time, Monday will just blend into my personal equation.


Steve-O
said

Imagine my extreme elation to know people are getting paid to do studies like this.


Randy in NW Ontario
said

Hey...the mathematical equation is not quite right...I'm certain that you have to factor in the square root of "what a bunch of B.S." and divide the quotient by "this is news?"


Gomtor
said

All scientific nonsense. Common sense rules!


Tom (Kingston)
said

A state of mind brought on by our own actions and reactions. It seems this article is reporting on a marketing scheme for the travel and tourism industry. Why is this making the news? Monday is just like any other day of the work week. It only feels challenging since we are transitioning from the relaxed weekend to the work week that many do not enjoy. Oddly enough Friday is a favourable day from the work week. How is this science?


Alexis in Victoria!
said

We have the weekend to psyche ourselves into having the best day on Monday and prove the experts wrong, then! Have a great weekend, everyone! No one gets you down unless you let them!


Doug # BC
said

OMG.What a load of absolute rubbish.It's a shame some pompous,pointy headed know it all probabley makes a lot of money coming up with this kind of dribble. Even worse, there are likely millions of people around the world pouncing on this as an excuse for their own failures on this particular day.If we keep bringing this up for enough years,I see activists,organizations,and police cars on fire as they demand their "Charter Right" to "free" help or protection from the government of the day. People make big bucks to sit around and "think".The rest of us,those who live in the real wold, actually have to "do" something to earn a living.


Dr D
said

I'm getting more and more depressed imagining how depressed I will be on Monday. Oye...Oye.


V.I.Brad
said

Demonic influence is fact? "Sorry boss, I can't come into work today, the Devil has me down in the dumps"


Albertan Jan
said

Wow, a story that's actually of less impact or value than the seals on Pictou Island. Give us a break.


Michael
said

This is so limited in scope. What about influence from the unseen world? Fact: depression can sometimes be from a demonic influence and not always a chemical imbalance.


John Cropper (Orillia ON.)
said

This story has now given me the incentive to make next Monday my "best" day of the year. I am really looking forward to it. Let's all work together and prove the experts wrong.


Herb
said

C'mon! It's MLK Day--the capper to a 3-day weekend! Many people don't have work or school. Around here (DC area), it's common for people to head to the hills for a 3-day ski break, or to jet down to Florida to catch some rays.


Ex-purts abound
said

"The experts have decided the day is already doomed." I don't ever listen to ex-spurts. They rarely know diddle from daddle and live in their own myopic little world. Take the global economic outlook. One say buy gold the other says don't. I'm buying silver stocks.


Goed. Robson , Nova Scotia
said

Just do not watch the "news" for a few days and you will be surprised how much better you will feel !


Frank D.
said

.....I don't think people who spend there last days in a Hospice would agree with this article!


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