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Date: Sunday Nov. 28, 2010 6:34 PM ET

All those folks checking Facebook on their cellphones -- rather than talking to the person next to them -- could actually be strengthening their relationships with friends and family, new research suggests.

But other studies present evidence that social networking can also cause a slew of negative ramifications, including addictive behaviour.

A new University of Texas at Austin study called "Got Facebook? Investigating What's Social about Social Media," says that use of the social networking site among college students and recent graduates is fuelled by a desire to stay connected.

The study, led by S. Craig Watkins, an associate professor of radio, television and film, surveyed 900 subjects across the United States about how and why they use Facebook.

When asked to choose the top three activities they engage in on Facebook, the subjects overwhelmingly selected those that allow them to keep up with the goings-on in their friends' and families' lives. They also liked sharing information about themselves.

When asked to choose their top Facebook activities:

  • 66 per cent chose "posting status updates"
  • 60 per cent chose "posting comments/likes to my profile"
  • 49 per cent chose "posting messages and other content to friends' profiles"

When asked about what type of communication is most important to them, 47 per cent cited communication with friends who live in a different state or country as "very important," while 28 per cent said communicating with friends who live in the same city is "very important." Thirty-five per cent said communicating with family members is "very important."

"Our findings indicate that Facebook is not supplanting face-to-face interactions among friends, family and colleagues," Watkins said in a statement. "In fact, we believe there is sufficient evidence that social media afford opportunities for new expressions of friendship, intimacy and community."

Indeed, the survey's results showed that while males and females use Facebook differently, they both want to share personal information.

For example, men like to share news and updates about tasks they are completing, and are less likely to post photographs to their profile page. However, when they do post photos, they are often personal in nature, relating to their hobbies or scenery from places they have visited.

Women, on the other hand, are far more likely to share photographs from family events, saying they find such images an important way to share fun and personal experiences with their friends.

Overall, 87 per cent of respondents said they posted pictures to Facebook ahead of any other media, such as videos or website links.

The downside of social media

Despite this promising research out of Texas, other recent studies have made headlines for suggesting that social media can lead to a variety of negative ramifications, from asthma to symptoms of addiction.

Last week, Italian doctors reported the case of a young man who was suffering from asthma attacks that appeared to be triggered by looking at his ex-girlfriend's profile on Facebook, which included numerous new male friends.

The heartbroken teen began suffering difficult or laboured breathing, known as dyspnea, every time he logged on to Facebook. When he quit using the social media site entirely, his asthma attacks stopped.

The doctors concluded that the stress of viewing his lost love on Facebook caused the teen to hyperventilate. While some experts suggested the laboured breathing did not necessarily equal an asthma attack, the doctors concluded that social networks could be a "new source of psychological stress" that serves as a risk factor for asthmatics.

But social media may also pose a threat to those who would appear to be a little more lucky in love.

A recent Angus Reid survey conducted for Bacardi found that Canadians may be ignoring their significant others to spend more time using social media sites.

According to the survey, 75 per cent of Canadians admit that checking social media sites is the last thing they do at night. And when they wake up? Partners are still getting the cold shoulder, as reaching for an electronic device to check email is first on the to-do list.

In Toronto and Montreal, a whopping 80 per cent of people grab their mobile phones rather than their partners first thing in the morning.

That survey didn't analyze whether having to check email or Facebook before doing anything else constitutes addictive behaviour. However, another recent study proved that college-aged social media users can suffer serious withdrawal symptoms if these sites are forbidden for even a mere 24 hours.

For their study, researchers from the International Center for Media and the Public Agenda (ICMPA) asked 200 students from the University of Maryland to stop using all forms of media, including phones, computers and iPods, for one day.

The students were then asked to report how they felt during the experiment, and the results surprised even the researchers. While they knew the students would be less-than-keen on giving up their gadgets, they were shocked that the students reported suffering from a variety of withdrawal symptoms like headaches, fidgeting and feelings of isolation.

Many of them couldn't stand the pressure, and gave in to their desire to check email or look up sports scores or other news.

"Texting and IMing my friends gives me a constant feeling of comfort," one student said. "When I did not have those two luxuries, I felt quite alone and secluded from my life."

The findings don't surprise Dr. Bruce Ballon, head of adolescent clinical and educational services for problem gambling, gaming and Internet use at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health in Toronto.

Ballon, who is in the process of investigating why youth with underlying mental health issues appear to be more vulnerable to online gambling and Internet addictions, said students coming of age today are doing so in a highly connected world.

"So it's like taking away a sense almost," Ballon told CTV.ca in a telephone interview. "Some of them think, ‘I'm so connected and I have to get a lot of information through this media.' Taking away something that they're used to, it does make sense that they're going to feel it in different ways."

Ballon said it's clear that the Internet and social networking sites can be used for a variety of good, from communicating to news gathering to organizing flash mobs around the world.

But he also said the easy access has laid the groundwork for unhealthy relationships with technology.

But rather than cut it out of people's lives entirely, guidelines for the appropriate use of social media in homes, schools and workplaces would allow for their more productive, and measured, use.

"One of the greatest gaps I find is just our socio-cultural issues that no one's taking stands against it, not to say we must not use any of it, but what's the healthy way to do this?" Ballon said. "What's the content, the access, the time, the responsibilities of parents, schools, agencies? Just basic things we do around drug use and other things like that."

Ballon is clear he is not suggesting that video games, the Internet or social media sites need to be restricted like controlled substances.

But there must be balance, he says.

"Some people say, ‘Oh, just take it all away and they'll get better.' That's nice, but at some point we're going to have to reintroduce it because, to let people have a fighting chance in our society, they have to have a healthy relationship with technology," Ballon said. "It's all about a healthy relationship with any sort of behaviour."

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Liz
said

Facebook is a lovely tool for stalkers and creeps- these people who think that facebook cares about privacy are mistaken...it makes people even more socially awkward.


Teacher in Guelph
said

Although this news is interesting, and will probably be taken as justification for texting, IMing, facebooking, etc., it doesn't mention how social skills have been affected. Sure, being constantly connected may enhance relationships, but are these "social addicts" able to interact face-to-face? Can they adjust their spelling/grammar/speech in order to write a decent sentence or cover letter for an employment opportunity?As a teacher, I have seen many bastardized versions of words in student submissions. Also, it is remarkable how stressed and anxious students can get when they are asked to hand-over their cell phone because of the constant distraction during class (as was mentioned in this article already)I am curious to know how productivity in the workplace is being affected by the constant checking and re-checking of social media (checking emails seems to be a necessary component of business, but social media is not).I would argue that being constantly connected results in fewer social skills, poorer spelling/grammar, and unnecessary anxiety/stress that could lead to serious mental health issues.Research in this field will probably boom over the next 5-10 years.


Marty
said

Face Book is just a networking "tool". As with any "tool", how effective or misused it is, is user dependent.


Anne
said

Social media does not foster "relationships", in fact quite the opposite. You can write whatever you want, without context and don't have to deal with anyone face to face. Young people plaster their pictures all over their pages, without regard to who sees them (Do you really believe only your invited "friends" can see them?) and parents post pictures of their children (the pedophiles love you).
Is it really so difficult to pick up the phone or better yet, meet up with people? If the answer to that is yes, you need to rethink your life.
Hey, if I haven't kept in touch with you after 20 years, there is probably a reason for that.



Emm
said

Having lived overseas and in four Canadian cities, I have friends spread far and wide. Facebook is an extremely efficient way to keep people in the loop about your life. And yes, we still pick up the phone... But thanks to Facebook, we don't need to spend much time chit chatting about the day to day (how's work, how was your birthday, what'd your cat eat for lunch, blah de blah); we can jump right to the good stuff.


glen
said

just another tool for the criminal world to dupe and scam exploit the users


Jerry in Calgary
said

Its a stupid public social networking place where stupid people tell the whole world about themselves. Its also a great place to visit for the criminals of society to get some real great leads. People like sexual predators and illegal organized crime also like to visit this place. So to all who wish to expose themselves to the whole world, suffer the consequences of your foolish actions. I for one am being constantly bombarded with invitations to join (even from my good friends) but thankfully, I have stayed true to my own beliefs about such suspect social networking sites and refuse to be a part of this questionable means of communicating with friends or family. Its not that I am anti social for I am quite the opposite being a member of many social organizations. If I want to talk to them, I just use the phone....it works quite well actually.......AND ITS SAFE FROM PREDATORS AND THE LIKE. I also do not have to worry about someone taking ownership of what I consider to be very personal....namely my life. Peace to all of you.


Made in Manitoba
said

My friend and his wife came to an end because of social networking. Facebook being her main addiction. She would constantly be putting makeup on and dressing up but never going out. Rather she would be taking picture after picture of herself and posting them on Facebook. She would have ten hour marathons of just sitting there and individually reading everyone's status along with comments. If one could describe her look, it was like she had tunnel vision and it was only her and the laptop alone in the world. But if can be used for good things also. Keeping in touch with friends you haven't spoken to in years as well as family that live long distances away. One thing about this story that doesn't make sense to me is why there are people out there that will keep an ex on their buddy list. That just boggles my mind. I think that would suggest issues of not wanting to let go.


JohnInMtl
said

Bah! Humbug! Another useless and incomplete study by an university research team! They seem to have too much time and money on their collective hands. They should be researching for a cure for any of the diseases that plague us such as cancer, Aids, MS, etc. The sources of the funding of these useless and sometimes self-serving studies should be also investigated and/or revealed.Phone calls are a much better and personal way to keep in touch. Facebook addiction is very prevalent and many employers ban the use of Facebook (and other social media) on their networks. The use of the Internet on the company's time should solely be for the company's business.


Sunny
said

I use facebook daily, or you can say few times a day. It has given me the opportunity to be in contact with my family and friends here in Canada and abroad. I feel closer to everyone. Of course my friend list just near one hundred and I don't add any strangers, only family and near and dear friends. We share our photos, our views and lot of other stuff. e.g. my sister can see my little 8 months old's first crawling same day in Indial. I can see my niece's son's pictures everyday from England regularly. I don't play games and other app stuff on facebook, as I don't have time for it. Everything in this world has pros and cons. And I try to take advantage of the pros of facebook and not worry about the cons.Long live facebook or whatever better has in its place in future.


GET A LIFE!
said

People who subscribe to Facebook are too afraid to live in reality. They measure their worth by counting their "friends". Listen, even a notorious killer will have a high friend count. That is NO measure of popularity. What makes one popular is being out there with actual live warm human beings. Not fussing everyday over their web pages to see what somebody said or didnt say. I can understand this website if i lived on some isolated town located on a tundra of the far north but what excuse could i give somebody who lives in a metropolitan city?


patty
said

I was apprehensive about joining facebook, but since joining, I have found and connected with many family members I havent seen or spoken to in years, including my half brother, I had no idea where he was. So, that side of it I think is a positive. What I dont understand is people who have 2000 "friends" and who sit and play farmville for 12 hours and would, literally, have a panic attack if the power were to go out for a day and they had no facebook. Moderation is the key to anything in life, unfortunately, there are millions of people out there with addictive personalities and for some, their addiction has become a computer program. Getting rid of social networks wouldnt do anything for these people as they would just find another addiction. remember folks, facebook is meant to be a fun way to stay connected, not your sole purpose for waking up each morning.


Lori
said

Oh for God's sake, it's just Facebook. You don't need to do studies on it. Let it be. I'm in my 40's, I work all day and when I get home the last thing I want to do is get on the phone. I use facebook to keep in touch with out of town relatives and friends. My kids are away at school, I use Messenger and Facebook with them as well as the phone. I like the fact that when I run into a friend, I've already been "in the loop" and we can pick up from today. If you don't like Facebook then stay off it. Otherwise live and let live. And maybe get a hobby that forces you to focus on your OWN life.


Jen
said

It's pretty good for marketing. Also good for keeping in touch with family who don't live in the same country. Very nice for sharing photos without huge email attachments. I think if you're going to get addicted, you'd have to have a particular personality type anyway, and if it wasn't facebook, it would be something else.


bc grrl
said

i choose to be anti social networking! facebook takes away from real life, as does tw-idiots. get a life, talk to the person next door, respect them enough to give them your undivided attention and time. thinking that the cyber world is enough to maintain a healthy relationship is pure stupidity, if it were then a child would not have starved to death while it's parents played on line games. one day the world may crash, do you want to be able to live or will you go tuck tail and hide in a corner until the lights come back on? i can guarantee that so many computer addicted kids can't even read or write properly and this is doing nothing at all to prepare them for life outside the womb of the pc!


Wayne
said

I wish facebook could help student to write and spell correctly. My grade 11 and 12 students can't spell even the simplest of words; how the heck could they carry on a conversation on facebook? Keep up with friends and families my butt! I love seeing their comments with all the spelling and grammatical mistakes. It really helps me mark their papers. Oh, it also shows me how much their cheating too. LOL. And they wonder why they are failing. And they think they are so smart. HA!! Thank you facebook.


Will
said

Another excuse for not taking responsibility for yourself and your relationships. "It's not my fault!" "It's that damned facebook" stop making excuses, if your relationship is in trouble, you have nowhere to go to find blame but your closest mirror.


Skitty
said

What a waste. Frankly I don't care if you got a new bench for Dickietown or your cat threw up a ball. I stay on Facebook for the 1% of truly entertaining, informative and well thought out posts and try to ignore the puke that people feel compelled to spew.


lady O
said

I think it's nice to have some form of contact with my family in Norway, Italy, Greece, Chilie, U.S.A and to see what my other friends around the world are doing. It's quick and you always feel connected to them. For that reason I think it's great. I miss them all and I like to see what they are up to on a day to day basis.


KJ in Kingston Ontario
said

An awful lot of people think their lives are far more interesting to other people than they really are. But that's mostly harmless I suppose. Message in a bottle syndrome


Young Senior Citizen
said

So many people throwing their privacy away. Keep tweeting, facebooking, and putting yourself on GPS so all your friends know nobody's at your house. Idiots. How did it ever come to this?


Toronto Citizen
said

Why are people talking bad about Facebook? It's just another way to keep in touch with people and meet new friends along the way. Maybe facebook can keep people off the streets and keep them occupied. This should reduce some crime in Toronto.


ian
said

This reminds me of Dear Diary that many used years ago..The difference is at the time all thoughts/desires were private...Now, they are available to the world...I really don't care how many headaches you have, or what you are going to do with your room...It's childish and not worth the time of day....Keep it to yourself, because no one cares..


Prof. Pye Chartt
said

Facebook is a virtual habitat of false friends. (As Jimmy Kimmel has said, "Real friends help you move.") The "connection" that users relish is akin to the security blanket dragged around in public by a child. It allows people to FEEL connected without actually BEING legitimately connected. It is another electronic escapist and avoidance device (like email) that neatly guards against direct and intimate contact, like that achieved by our old neglected (and modernly hated) friend, the telephone. While not encouraging social isolation, Facebook encourages social insulation, and facilitates a cool distant social connection that can be made to appear warm and close. Facebook is largely a toy for tools. Its greatest fans are narcissists, self-important yips, self-indulgent clods, nosey voyeurs, business lemmings, the chronically curious, fling-seekers, and unhappy yearning types. A societal disease is, really, what Facebook amounts to.


Ken - Ont
said

What I don't understand is why people would think that I give a %$#@ about what they did today. The other thing I don't understand is why people post questionable things on their Facebook page for employers or potential employers to see.


Sam C
said

The downside to texting, IMing and FaceBooking, is the lack of context. What would be recognized as sarcasm or a light-hearted joke in a face-to-face conversation might be misinterpreted as an insult in a text-only format. As for relationships, I'm not convinced the medium helps or hinders -- some people just don't do relationships well.


Greg in Cambridge
said

If you got along just fine so far without all these new social things, you'll live without them. Do you really need to spend all that time using facebook and the other time wasters?


Slewhigh Yendick
said

I cannot believe people could get addicted to facebook !! But I suppose some people are weak and insecure..........................


Jon in London ON
said

However, another recent study proved that college-aged social media users can suffer serious withdrawal symptoms if these sites are forbidden for even a mere 24 hours. Addictive eh? I guess marijuana isn't the gateway drug anymore.


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