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Strong relationships key to long life, study suggests

Jeannette Zeltzer, 81 and her new boyfriend Max Rakov, 92, hold hands while sitting on a couch at the assisted living facility where they live on Saturday, March 8, 2008 in Newton, Mass. Zeltzer recently lost her husband and now spends time holding hands with Rakov who also suffers from Alzheimer's. (AP Photo/Greg M. Cooper)
Jeannette Zeltzer, 81 and her new boyfriend Max Rakov, 92, hold hands while sitting on a couch at the assisted living facility where they live on Saturday, March 8, 2008 in Newton, Mass. Zeltzer recently lost her husband and now spends time holding hands with Rakov who also suffers from Alzheimer's. (AP Photo/Greg M. Cooper)

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Date: Wednesday Jul. 28, 2010 7:02 PM ET

Having great friends, a strong marriage and children who love you may be just as important to living a long life as something like quitting smoking, a new study finds.

Researchers from Brigham Young University have found that people who have lots of close relationships have better odds of living a long life than those who are lonely.

The study, which appears in the July issue of PLoS Medicine, found that strong social connections improve our odds of survival by 50 per cent. In fact, the protective effect of strong social relationships exceeds the influence of other early-death risk factors, such as:

  • not exercising
  • obesity

Low social interaction, on the other hand, is equivalent to:

  • smoking 15 cigarettes a day
  • being an alcoholic

"The idea that a lack of social relationships is a risk factor for death is still not widely recognized by health organizations and the public," write PLoS Medicine editors in a summary of the study.

To reach their findings, BYU psychology professor Julianne Holt-Lunstad and counseling psychology professor Timothy Smith analyzed data from 148 previously studies. All were longitudinal studies that measured frequency of human interaction. Together, these studies included 308,849 people who were followed for about 7.5 years, on average.

Holt-Lunstad says there are lots of ways that friends and family can influence health for the better, ranging from the comfort provided by physical contact and providing finding meaning in life.

"When someone is connected to a group and feels responsibility for other people, that sense of purpose and meaning translates to taking better care of themselves and taking fewer risks," Holt-Lunstad said in a news release.

Smith said with modern conveniences and technologies, many people might underestimate the value of face-to-face contact.

"We take relationships for granted as humans -- we're like fish that don't notice the water," Smith said in the release. "That constant interaction is not only beneficial psychologically but directly to our physical health."

Holt-Lunstad notes that information on relationship quality was unavailable from most of the studies they examined.

"The data simply show whether they were integrated in a social network," Holt-Lunstad said. "That means the effects of negative relationships are lumped in there with the positive ones. They are all averaged together."

She added that the study method also made it difficult to define which type of relationships is most protective: family or friends. But she says the 50 per cent increased odds of survival may actually underestimate the benefit of healthy relationships.

The authors suggest that policymakers should consider ways to help people maintain social relationships as a way of keeping the population healthy.

"Physicians, health professionals, educators, and the public media take risk factors such as smoking, diet, and exercise seriously; the data presented here make a compelling case for social relationship factors to be added to that list," they write.

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Bill in BC
said

A blinding glimpse of the obvious. My dear wife and I have been together since 1946. (I was 26 and she a lovely 19.) And we are still going strong; with 3 children, 7 grand children, and 3 great-granddaughters! You do the math. In this age where people enter into temporary relationships, little better than one night stands maybe some lessons from us "old farts" are in order. Does a strong relationship make you live longer, maybe not, but it DOES make it WORTH living!


Brian Fr Langley
said

Kissing your wife might be the kiss of life? Who knew.


Portes
said

island girlI agree with you completely. Having served in the military, I learned two things1. Live every day like it is your last,seeing many of my good friends blown up on the battlefield and they were in their late teens or early twenties2. When the book opens and your name is on it, I don't care who you are from Prince to Pauper you are going and there ain't no coming backI believe in one thing eat,.drink and be merry for tomorrow you may die, while you still can. I am not saying to overdo anything. Everything in moderation , that is the secret. Another thing I sure don't want to live to 100 and be a vegetable


BK
said

This is another useless study that tells us nothing. To suggest that close relationships are better than diet and exercise is ridiculous. I'll bet the study never analyzed the amount of stress encountered in relationships, even the so-called good ones. Staying fit and eating properly are the keys to feeling good about yourself and you don't need anyone else to practice a healthy lifestyle. Relationships are fine but if you are comfortable with yourself and lead a healthy lifestyle, you will live a very long and satisfying life.


Sam
said

So the key to a strong economy would be for people to stay single & die younger, the older age people live to the more of a burden they are on our health care. i for one want to enjoy life, I don't want to be around when I become old, frail & senile.


KJ in Kingston Ontario
said

I doubt that includes the pseudo relationships found on line for the most part.... This is one more reason people should work as long as they can -- since it enables and maintains the social network better than an isolated poverty strickened retirement ever will. Better tell the GM workers in WINDSOR


When 2=1
said

Relationships are not a given.... they require mutual effort, responsibility and love which is more than just a fleeting emotion... it is a series of decisions to look for the best and not pick at issues. Having said that I live with the bestest, kindest, most caring and loving woman in the world who loves me for who and what I am shortcomings and all. In return I do my best to deal with my issues and love her by doing things to make her life pleasant and loving. I do it all, dishes, cooking, laundry, vacuuming, whatever will lighten the load on my sweetie that needs to get done....most of all we communicate a lot, nothing hidden, everything out in the open. Works for us.


island girl
said

I agree that too much emphasis has been put on diet and exercise. Too many of my athletic, organic food chomping middle-aged friends are dead. There's way more to the equation than endless calorie counting and visits to the gym. People used to have a social network through churches and family. Then through work but work is an unstable environment itself now. We need to nurture our marriages and longterm friendships more.


Avi Ickovich
said

As this article suggests we need to ensure that seniors maintain their mobility and that others (e.g., grandchildren) visiting seniors have enhanced access to them. I believe we need to plan for the time when seniors can no longer drive in order to maintain their mobility, social connections and health. I believe that we need to encourage compact communities where seniors can walk, be driven short distances, or take handi-buses. The more compact the communities the more viable (through volumes of passengers) for transit authorities to maintain such services. These ideas are aligned with Canadian Association of Retired People (CARP's) Age-Friendly-Cities position paper which can be found on their website. Such age-friendly cities are already found in Europe. Urban densification provides seniors the opportunity to maintain their independence and social connections much longer than our current urban sprawl models of urban planning. A proposal that will encourage densification is to amend the current Provincial Property Purchase Tax to stimulate the construction of high density housing, with additional exemptions and/or reductions based on density of dwelling and proximity to major transit routes.I believe that seniors on fixed income and limited financial assets would benefit from my proposal as they would obtain a reduction on the upfront cost on the purchase of a condominium or other medium or high density dwelling. For instance, a 1% difference on a $400,000 townhouse is a $4,000 upfront cost to senior couple. With the increasing number of empty-nesters, seniors should not be penalized for downsizing.


JB in Ontario
said

I believe this information and agree that strong relationships with family and friends helps to lead a long life. Low social interaction cannot be very good.


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