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Why do powerful men cheat? Because they can

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Arnold Schwarzenegger speaks at the Israel 63rd Independence Day Celebration hosted by the Consulate General of Israel in Los Angeles, Tuesday, May 10, 2011. Schwarzenegger was honoured at the event. (AP / Matt Sayles) Mildred Patricia Baena, also known as 'Patty Baena', has been revealed as the mother of Arnold Schwarzenegger's fifth child. This file photo taken Oct. 7, 2003, shows Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife, Maria Shriver ,as they celebrate his victory in the California gubernatorial recall election in Los Angeles. (AP Photo/Mark J. Terrill, File) Arnold Schwarzenegger speaks to reporters after an appearance in Toronto on Wednesday, Jan. 26, 2011.

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Date: Thu. May. 19 2011 5:23 PM ET

From Bill Clinton to Tiger Woods to countless political leaders in Europe, Arnold Schwarzenegger is just the latest in a list of married celebrities caught in a sex scandal.

And while his affair shocked many, some say with all that power and fame, it's not only predictable that a man like Schwarzenegger would cheat, but highly likely.

Toronto-based clinical psychologist, Dr. Oren Amitay, says men (and women) with power tend to have an overinflated sense of confidence that allows them to think they'll get away with bad behaviour.

"It's not intelligence that's at issue; it's judgment," Amitay told CTV's Canada AM Thursday.

"If you've gotten away for so many years with doing pretty much whatever you want to do with very few consequences, why would you change?

While Schwarzenegger had plenty to risk with his extramarital dalliances -- his marriage, his family, his career and perhaps his legacy --he had also been able to weather similar scandalous storms before.

During Schwarzenegger's campaign for California governor, as many as 15 women stepped forward to allege that the then-actor groped, spanked, or touched them inappropriately.

"And what were the consequences? Nothing," said Amitay.

"So when your needs are so important, when you place your needs above everything else, you're not really thinking of the consequences or anticipating what could happen, or feeling any anxiety around it, because that's not part of your experience."

Amitay says it's worry that prevents most of us from doing naughty things -- the worry about getting caught, the fear of the consequences, of hurting somebody. But when powerful people get away with misdeeds for so long, it's not long before they don't bother to worry at all.

"Certain personalities just don't feel anxiety," he said.

Some of these people, if they were raised with power, get used to having parents or family swoop in and protect them, Amitay says. Others like Schwarzenegger, who is more of a self-made man, probably told themselves as young men that they were going to be a certain kind of personality.

Amitay believes Schwarzenegger is likely in a lot of ways just like Tiger Woods, who risked his family and career for his sexual peccadilloes.

"They've lived their lives being told by everyone around them they're special, they're entitled. ‘You deserve whatever you want; you're that great.' And if you're being told that, why wouldn't you believe it?"

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Ron Gill
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I think he is the victim of being a true blue not all this silly sexual stuff. I hope his wife understands it and reconcile with him. I think he is being destroyed by the interest groups.


Randy
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Powerful or not, men that cheat are selfish. They have compartmentalized their actions and think they can have their fun and not harm the marriage. For good or bad, women are not as good at compartmentalization.


Tom
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I personally think Sharon is the Naive one. Just because you can cheat doesn't mean you have to. it's a question of character not opportunity. And Sharon, the majority do NOT cheat. Stop reading penthouse forum as a source of data.


not trustworthy
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Just because you CAN cheat, doesn't mean you should. Much like, you CAN rob a bank, or you CAN kill someone - does it mean you should? No. If a person can lie and live such a lie for years, you have to wonder what else they are capable of? I hope his family does not forgive him, because he obviously never thought of them once, while he was doing what he has been doing behind their backs.


Doug
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@ Sharon actually most comprehensive and anonymous studies do not show very high levels of cheating. There is a significant minority that does but not as many as is often trotted out in "shock" news articles and rumours.


Gerald
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@John Lethbridge "Amen"


Bill Lee
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The powerful cheat because that's how they became powerful. Anyone who climbs high has had to sink low. They lie, steal, betray. Scum rises to the top.


Larry
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Who cares? Regardless of any hidden agenda, would anyone else get this much media attention?


Bards
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As Chris Rock once said, man is as faithful as his options.


John Lethbridge
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Whatever the reason is, I don't think many of us comprehend the pain that the cheater leaves those around him. People don't just wake up one day and decide to cheat. By time they cheat, they've long since left being committed to their spouse and family, and have been pushing the limit with 'softer' forms of cheating often for years. I have a brother that was just busted for cheating. The pain is incredible, like someone in my family died. I really feel for his family.


Gis Bun
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The women are just as guilty as the men. They know that the man is married. They may even be married themselves.


Laurie
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Any man can. It is the age old sin of lust.


jim
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Of course he was powerful. He had the power to ruin lives and he exercised that power. The US Constitution should be changed so that Arnold can become President. He has demonstrated that he can serve as Chief Destroyer.


Gerald
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@ Mark J. It's probably not that complicated. Some people just simply get off on being sneaky and deceitful. It's a selfish thing. Looks like a lot of fun at the time, But where are they now?


Sober
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Life without limits is plain foolishness. Freedom has its limits for a good reason.


Mary Ann
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What about the women….they knowingly cheat with a married man (Woods, Edwards, Clinton). When a man is married… walk away. And when you are the married man…walk away. No sense of honour and respect. In Schwarzenegger case this woman was in her home, with her children that has to doubly hurt. I have no respect for either party.


Dixie from Alberta
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Its amazing what men are willing to give up just for sex.


Mark J.
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So far his behaviour has been the topic. But I'd also like to know what's up with the behaviour of these women. All of the women involved with Tiger Woods would've known he was married. Marilyn Munroe knew J.F.K. was married. Monica Lewinsky knew Clinton was married. Etc. Etc. Why do these women so eagerly have sex with those men?


CraigW
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Powerful men proabably cheat for the exact same reason poewrful women cheat. There is just a lot more of them, so you hear about it more. If we truly want equality between the sexes, quit trying to make men look like the bad guys for doing things that both sexes do.


Sharon
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I think you're a little naive Will. Have you seen the statistics of spouses cheating? To say most do not isn't accurate. The difference is, with non-famous people either nobody finds out or only the other spouse finds out. With famous people it becomes news.


Gerald
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I was taught that "powerfull" meant strong in character, strong in spirit....nothing to do with fame and or money.


once bitten twice shy
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I totally agree! Rich or poor it doesn't matter! A cheater is a cheater and can no longer be trusted!


George McCasland
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Why do women target these men to have sex with?

A few issues I have with the issue regarding the child by the former CA Govenator, legally the child is not his, and he is not obligated to pay child support as she was married at the time, and committed perjury in the divorce filing from her husband, saying that she was not pregnant.

Legally, the child is her husband's. I wonder if Govenator checked paternity, or didn’t out of fear that someone might learn about the child? The child may not be his. Plus, even if the child is his, he has not paid any child support. He has given her gifts as there is no court order. She can still file for retroactive support on him, as was the case with David Bren when his grown children filed for $134 million in retroactive support last summer, though he had paid their mother $18,000 a month without a court order.

Will
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Amitay has it wrong, they don't cheat because they can.... anyone CAN cheat, but few do. Cheaters cheat because it is in their nature. And because of that, they can never be trusted with anything. Someone who breaks the most personal loyalty they can have will do the same with any other promise, at any other opportunity and for any reason.


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